“How do you start meaningful conversations about your relationship with Jesus Christ? God gives you daily opportunities to share His love with others. You don’t have to look hard to take advantage of the right moments to help other people find the love and joy of Jesus in their lives. Do you feel nervous about the thought of talking to others about your faith? In Sharing Jesus without Freaking Out, you’ll learn how to incorporate biblical stories into conversations with the people in your life. You already have the gifts necessary to share God’s love with other people. You don’t need a memorized evangelism script or a tract handy. Simply relax, tell your story, and you might be amazed at how natural it can be to share Jesus.”
A few months ago I invited Alvin Reid to Fairview Baptist Church for our quarterly leadership training. In partnership with B&H Academic and The Baptist State Convention, this seminar on evangelism was recorded as a resource for Dr. Reid’s newest book, “Sharing Jesus Without Freaking Out“. I hope these sessions challenge you and encourage you like they did our church family.
The videos can be found here: http://www.bhacademic.com/sharingjesus-teaching-videos/
I have a new article at For The Church exploring thoughts on pastoral counseling. Here is an excerpt.
“Pastoral counseling is both a privilege and burden. Paul Tripp has aptly reminded us that “We must not let ourselves become comfortable with the casual, where ministry is limited to offering general principles that would fit anyone’s story. The genius of personal ministry is that it is [deeply] personal…This means that effective, God-honoring, heart-changing personal ministry is dependent on a rich base of personal information. You cannot minister well to someone you do not know” (Instruments In The Redeemers Hands, 165). The nature of pastoral ministry, true biblical shepherding, means that we will know more about those in our congregations than others will. Sometimes that knowledge deeply affects us as pastors. In heavy pastoral counseling situations, we must understand that grief will often accompany us as we journey with the counselee towards healing. We need to have an intentional plan for our own health, and the counselees good. Having a plan can help forge a path to walk with a hurting church member towards hope. More importantly, we must intentionally walk them towards our only hope, the great physician, Jesus Christ. So when we weep, we weep with perspective. When we weep, we do not weep as those who have no hope. As pastors, it is important that we cast all of our pastoral burdens on God, because he cares for us, just like he cares for those under our spiritual care (1 Pet. 5:7).”
Read the whole thing at For The Church.
Curiosity is such a childish word, right? Not so fast. Just because we grow up doesn’t mean we should lose our wonder at the world, or the people around us. When we do, we lose so much because curious is how God made us to be.
My friend Barnabas Piper is on to something here. Without curiosity a Christian’s life is incomplete. “Without curiosity he can never discover deep things, deep connections God tucked below the banal surface of life.”
In his new book, Piper explores what curiosity is, and how it affects relationships. Here are a few good quotes!
- Curiosity is more than a mere trait. It is a discipline, a skill, a habit – one that will expand your life in magnificent, if subtle, ways.
- Imagination guides and shapes our use of information.
- God is echoed in rhythms of music, meter of poems, strokes of brush, taps of a hammer, numbers on a pivot table, laughs with a friend, fantastical fiction, icicles, acorns, sweet tea, oak trees, walleye, alloy metals, espresso, and cirrus clouds.
- You and I were created to create and discover, created for the vocation of reflecting God’s image.
- Curiosity combined with courage presses in and digs deeper in relationship.
- If curiosity is not increasing our joy and capacity for enjoyment then something is amiss.
- Curiosity is a hunger to know more truth so that we can show people more truth so that our world will see more of God.
- Curious people create more, find better solutions to problems, overcome challenges, meet needs that arise, make connections, and prepare better for the future.
- Open-mindedness, at its best, is humility and grace blended with curiosity – but not without conviction.
- The Christian faith should be curious, not blind. It should be full of questions, not fear questions.
- True curiosity is the pursuit of truth, the exploration of God’s creation and will for the world.
- Questions are the currency of curiosity. But unlike other currency there is no withdrawal limit and they multiply themselves. Spend liberally.
Be curious. By all means, invest the time to read this book.
Well, perhaps you have heard about them. If you haven’t, they are worth your consideration.
When a parent leaves, undoubtedly the children struggle to make sense of it. While I have never experienced this personally, I have friends and family members who have. One thing is clear, nothing hurts like the abandonment of a parent.
In his book Left, Jonathan Edwards (not the puritan) writes with honesty and transparency as he reflects on his life as an abandoned child. Edwards also writes in a way that provides hope for anyone struggling with the absence of a parent. As a pastor and a Christian friend this book was important to read because it provided a window into the lives of others that have experienced the pain of parental abandonment. I am thankful for Jonathan’s contribution to the church, and his reminder that while “…abandonment always leaves scars, Jesus heals. And He will never leave you.”
My friends Derek Radney and Trevor Lawrence are unremittingly clear-headed thinkers and know what they believe and why they believe it. When I received their book on Discipleship, I know it was going to be thorough and articulate.
In Discipleship, Derek and Trevor attempt to outline a comprehensive introduction to the Christian faith in a way that is faithful to the task of passing on the truth once for all delivered to the saints. It is comprehensive not because it explains everything exhaustively but because it covers the basics of the whole expanse of what Christianity concerns, teaching the doctrine (the truth), the morality (the way), and the fellowship (the life) of the Christian faith. You will notice that the book is organized around the ancient discipleship structure “the way, the truth, and the life”. This book is a good tool to read with others and explore what it means to be a Christian and to help others learn how to do the same.
I recently wrote a series of devotionals through Isaiah for LifeWay.
Advent is a special and important time to reflect on the birth of Jesus and everything Jesus came to do. The goal for using the devotionals,
- Draw your family closer around the birth of Christ
- Help you develop fresh appreciation for why Christ came
- Adopt a purpose- and mission-filled approach to the busy Christmas season.
I encourage you to not only use it for your family but to share it with other families in your study groups.
If you are planning on being at the NC Baptist State Convention, consider participating in a gathering for Young Pastors?
The purpose being, to connect the next generation of Great Commission-minded SBC pastors in the state of North Carolina.
This gathering will be focused on building relationships, learning from each other, and discussing how we can steward our future together. The discussion will center around questions like:
- Where do you go for resources, tips, and training?
- How are you developing leaders in your church?
- How do you keep yourself fresh to do ministry with a full tank?
- How are you engaging your community with the Gospel?
- How are you leading culture change in your church?
- What is the best way for us to cooperate to strengthen our future?
After the gathering, you can grab dinner and return to the convention hall to hear David Platt preach the convention sermon.
B&H Publishing and Crossway are providing free books (a $55 value) for each attendee.
- Exalting Jesus in Revelation (Christ-Centered Commentary), by Danny Akin
- The SBC and the 21st Century: Reflection, Renewal, and Recommitment, edited by Jason Allen
- Discipling: How to Help Others Follow Jesus, by Mark Dever
- More to come…
There will also be light snacks! To sign up for the meeting, click on the link below.
What does Jonah have to do with Jesus? Here is one thought…
“The good news of the gospel is that Jesus has provided a way of salvation. Jesus (though He did not deserve it like Jonah did) hurled himself into the storm of God’s wrath so that you and I might be saved. When Jesus sunk to the depths of death on our behalf, he made it possible for us to arrive safely on the shore of eternity. That is not only good news for us; it’s also good news for those around us.”